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May 11Liked by Holly Taylor Coolman

Thank you Holly. Creative resistance, I guess we do that. No expectations, even deferrals when I'm asked about it. It's as hard a day for the kids I've been privileged to raise as it is for their original mothers, as it is for me. I encourage the people I raise to not worry about me, but to acknowledge their original mothers if they are in a place to do so. But that's complicated to.

I thank you for sharing the origin story as it helps me with some perspective, and gives me comfort that I'm not alone in wanting this weekend to disappear from the calendar. And it's especially true in this particular tough season of parenting.

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May 11Liked by Holly Taylor Coolman

Thank you, Holly.

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As a single and childless woman, I personally don't find anything painful about Mother's Day. However, I do like to point to Julia Ward Howe's "Mother's Day Appeal" to the women of the world not to send their sons to kill each other, even though it sounds antiquated now that women are killing each other alongside men and taking that as gender equity.

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