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Michael Jefferies's avatar

Thanks for this! I have been surprised to see so many conservatives (especially Cathlolics) rushing to his defense as if he said nothing wrong at all. When I listened to it, the things that jumped out to me were not his encouragement that women could be mothers and don’t have to have careers to be happy, but his condemnation of NFP and seeming endorsement of the TLM as the best way (and that’s a charitable take) to worship God. I missed the Kenneth Copeland-esque recommendation of following tradition as a gateway to worldly success.

Surprised more Catholics didn’t notice that!

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Ted Barker's avatar

Thank you Holly for a well-considered critique of Mr. Butker's speech, especially from a Catholic perspective. I'm not sufficiently qualified to get into the Church specifics within your essay, but I would like to object to a couple of points and then offer an outsider's broader perspective on his speech.

First, you claim that he is engaged in "ad hominem" attacks on certain Catholic clergy, and that he is not being sufficiently respectful with his criticisms. I don't agree. Mr Butker never names any of the clergy and his critique is limited to the performance of their duties, not their personal character. As for his lack of respect, I can think of far worse and less respectful ways that he could have voiced his concerns, and I have to think that the Church would loathe giving the impression that they were repressing criticism from within the flock.

Second, with regard to "worldly success", it would seem that this is a rather broad and very much personally defined concept. Of course it could refer to material wealth and a collection of impressive titles, but it could also very well refer to a career path that the graduate finds personally rewarding and fulfilling for other reasons. "Worldly" here might simply mean: As opposed to the spiritual, non material aspects of personal growth.

Finally, Mr. Butker's speech stands in sharp contrast to the usual boiler plate graduation speeches where graduates are exhorted to "change the world" and can "be whatever they want to be", with little to no consideration given to obligations to the community and the necessary and healthy role of tradition in people's lives. If nothing else, the speech upsets the apple cart and gets people talking about marriage, family and faith, which is a good thing. In our increasingly secular society with, marriage and birth rates in free fall, we need more strong men like Harrison Butker to stand up and tell the truth.

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